As we approach the January 1, 2008, implementation date for HB 369, the Georgia Shared Parenting Act, we are mindful of the new requirements for parenting plans in Georgia divorce and other Georgia family law cases involving custody (joint or shared) of minor children. The 9th Judicial Administrative District Office of Dispute Resolution, covering the courts in most of North Central and Northeast Georgia (Superior Courts of Cherokee County, Fannin County, Forsyth County, Gilmer County, Gwinnett County, Habersham County, Hall County, Lumpkin County, Pickens County, Rabun County, Stephens County, Towns County, Union County, and White County), has prepared a helpful pamphlet called “What’s Best for My Child? (Ages and Stages of Children). You can find it here or it is included below.
SOURCE:9th Judicial Administrative District Office of Dispute Resolution
An Analysis of Georgia House Bill 369: Parenting Plans
What is a Parenting Plan?
The Impact of Divorce on Children
Divorce is one of the most powerful events that can affect a child in their young life. The basis of their life stability has been rocked for reasons they cannot fully grasp or comprehend at their age. I have seen this first hand as some close friends have separated and prepared for divorce. The pair has attempted reconciliation through family counseling, but even that process wears at the children’s psyche.
Some parents see divorce as solely a "grown-ups" issue. It’s common to hear one party say, "We just can’t get along anymore," or "She has been unfaithful." It is an unfortunate fact that divorce reaches beyond that into every aspect of the couple’s life and leave many people in a very difficult situation. The marital relationship has far reaching ramifications for children, extended families, friends, and others. Children, because of their impressionable minds and inability to fully comprehend the circumstances, are usually hit the hardest. The following are some perspectives on the views of children in a divorcing family.