Couples whose marriages are in trouble face many difficult decisions, all of which have the potential for serious consequences.

Some of these may be:

·         Is this marriage worth saving?

·         Will the children be harmed?

·         What will be the ramifications of our divorce?

·         How deeply will it alter our life?

You may also feel:

·         Ambivalent about ending the relationship

·         You are the most hurt, misunderstood, damaged, or least powerful person in the relationship

·         Your partner is using the myriad of divorce counter plays as a way to stay married

·         Intimidated by your partner in addressing and resolving complex and difficult issues

·         We would have a great divorce if it weren’t for the other party

·         The divorce is your last chance to destroy the other party